Lisa Haydon was trolled incessantly after she uploaded a picture on Instagram of breastfeeding her son Zack Lalvani, who was born on May 17, 2017. She received a lot of nasty comments on her Instagram post. Some called her a 'show off' while some requested her not to expose publically as mothers breastfeeding their baby was a private thing.
The model-turned-actress faced a lot of uncomfortable questions and comments but she still stands by the fact that it is healthy for mothers to breastfeed their babies. New mothers across the globe have been shamed for breastfeeding their babies in public.
"I certainly felt uncomfortable at times when I was asked if I was still breastfeeding my baby and it had only been four months. Some people told me I am not a cow, my baby should not feed off me and there were many things that made me feel uncomfortable to do it, not so much ashamed," Lisa Haydon told IANS.
The Ae Dil Hai Mushkil actress said that for her, it was "not necessarily a responsibility or duty", but it's something that came naturally.
"I know that a lot of people struggle to breastfeed for various different reasons," she added.
Lisa, 32, says she thought if she had the ability and the time where she didn't have to go to work immediately, she had a choice to stay home.
"I know that a lot of mothers don't, but I did. I felt very fortunate and blessed to be able to breastfeed my kid for as long as I did. I would definitely encourage every mother to do so and it is something I definitely standby," she added.
Lisa says she couldn't breastfeed her baby for one year "but I would definitely always aspire to do the best that I can and I recommend other mothers to do so".
Describing it as an "incredibly bonding", Lisa also said, "it is very healthy".
Asked what has changed for her on the professional front after becoming a mother, she said: "I had to learn how to pick and choose more than what I would usually do because I had the time to do it."
So, she is juggling and picking the best of what is offered.
Now, she says, it's all about "giving a 100 per cent when you are at work, and then of course when you go home and you're being a mom, you really focus on being the best mother you possibly can".
(With IANS Inputs)
